[00:00:00] Melissa Kellogg Lueck: Welcome. I am marketing expert and business coach Melissa Kellogg Lueck, and this is the Doing Business Like a Woman Podcast, where we are exploring and teaching you how women are reinventing the way business is done and money is made to help you create greater impact and financial freedom, one business at a time.
[00:00:30] Melissa Kellogg Lueck: Well, hello. Hello ladies. How's it going? I hope you're doing well. It is so great to be with you today. Thank you for being here. I hope you're having a fabulous day wherever you are, whatever time of day it is. I am getting ready to wrap up my day, but I wanted to come on and chat with you first. And we have been in [00:01:00] the transition stage of having the kids on summer break and kind of figuring all that out.
[00:01:09] Melissa Kellogg Lueck: It hasn't been. Perfect. Sometimes it has not, well, it hasn't been ideal either, but we're getting there, right? We are figuring it out and taking it day by day. I have been experimenting with. Change it up my schedule a little bit so that I can spend more time with my kiddos and still get work done because I, I do believe we can do both.
[00:01:37] Melissa Kellogg Lueck: I believe we can hold both. And so I don't have to sacrifice the growth of my business during the summertime, and I don't have to sacrifice the time and relationship I wanna have with my kiddos during the summer in order to grow my business. So. It is definitely not a perfect science, but I [00:02:00] think having that belief is.
[00:02:02] Melissa Kellogg Lueck: Really what's been helping me and helping me give myself some grace and just kind of play with different scenarios and some things work and some things don't. But you know, that's kind of, it's kind of like life and parenthood and business and that's how we're rolling. But today I am so excited to get to talk to you about consistency and.
[00:02:27] Melissa Kellogg Lueck: I know that can often drum up some some pressure, feelings of pressure or inadequacy or whatever, but I just ask that you stick with me here because I wanna explain to you because consistency is something I most often hear women that I talk to. It's what they want. They want consistent results.
[00:02:56] Melissa Kellogg Lueck: Right? Is that you too? Would you like to [00:03:00] have a consistent, and maybe it's not, doesn't, maybe that doesn't mean the exact same. Every single month exact same amount of revenue incoming every month, but it is predictable and predictable based on you trusting and knowing how you create clients and bring revenue into your business.
[00:03:27] Melissa Kellogg Lueck: And so you, you know, my hope for you is that. After today, you'll have a greater understanding of how much of your revenue and how much. Of that you are actually in control of. I know so often we think that whether clients come to us or not is kind of random. It's kind of out of our hands, you know, we do a whole bunch of things.
[00:03:57] Melissa Kellogg Lueck: We're not really sure what's working, what's not working, but we [00:04:00] just keep doing a whole bunch of things and hope that the people come to us, right? And that the revenue comes in. But I want to offer a different way. I want to offer a way that you know and trust yourself, that you can create the revenue, the clients, the opportunities that you want to create, and that you learn to trust that you're able to do that.
[00:04:29] Melissa Kellogg Lueck: And I find that this is. Really important work, and it's really common work for those that are in the mid five figure revenue range, right around, you know, 20, 30, 50, 60 K all the way up through six figures and beyond. And so the stages that I often see for our women owned. [00:05:00] Businesses for us as women entrepreneurs is that in the early stages when we're just starting out in our business, we're often experimenting with a lot of things.
[00:05:09] Melissa Kellogg Lueck: We're like, who's gonna pay me? For the service I wanna offer, what is the offer that I want to put out into the world that I believe is really gonna achieve the impact and the results that I want? And so we put things out into the world and we try a whole bunch of things. We serve a whole bunch of different people.
[00:05:29] Melissa Kellogg Lueck: And then as time goes on and we learn. How to make money and how to bring in revenue. We are able to really focus down in on the clients that we're best suited to serve the service and the way we provide our service That. Gets great results for our clients and that we love, right? That we feel great putting out into the world.
[00:05:57] Melissa Kellogg Lueck: And then there comes this place in the mid five [00:06:00] figure mark where we are still kind of in, that we're hanging on, I, I should say, to that. Experimental energy, where we're we? We're still thinking and feeling like we're beginners and we don't know everything and we're not an expert in sales or marketing, and we need to go and learn a bunch of things and try a bunch of things.
[00:06:23] Melissa Kellogg Lueck: And it lends to that energy of. Emergency, right? Like we're always in an emergency trying to create revenue and trying to figure out how we make money. But what I wanna offer you is a much more calm, peaceful, trusting
[00:06:43] Melissa Kellogg Lueck: energy. In your marketing, your sales, and in the way that you serve your clients. And so that's what I wanna talk with you about today. It's if you are in this, this period and in this phase, this mid five [00:07:00] figures phase, and you really wanna be growing and getting over six figures and beyond to keep growing.
[00:07:06] Melissa Kellogg Lueck: I wanna invite you into a new way of being, a new way of running your business where you have a lot more peace, a lot more trust, and where you have a lot more trust in your own wisdom, and you know how you create money. And when you need to create money, you create it. So that's what I wanna walk you through today.
[00:07:35] Melissa Kellogg Lueck: And so really it takes three things, three thing three. These are the three most imp important places in our business that we need to be consistent in order to create consistent results, because consistent results are created by number one, consistent belief. [00:08:00] Number two, consistent energy. And number three, consistent action.
[00:08:07] Melissa Kellogg Lueck: And when you have consistent belief that feeds your consistent energy, that feeds and leads into consistent action, you will have consistent results. Right? And yes, there are some. Pieces in here of experimentation, but if you've been in business a little while, you've probably already done a lot of this experimentation.
[00:08:36] Melissa Kellogg Lueck: And if you get quiet and really examine what you already know about your business, your belief, your skills, your clients, and what they need, I would venture to say you already have. Already know a lot of this, and it's just a matter of bringing it into clarity, bringing it into your [00:09:00] awareness, right? So I'm gonna walk you through these three areas, consistent belief, consistent energy, and consistent action that leads to consistent results.
[00:09:14] Melissa Kellogg Lueck: So number one is consistent belief. So often the problem. That I see and that I've experienced myself. I'll tell you my own story. There was a time in my business where my, I, I had been in a very high place of belief believing in the work that I was doing, that it was valuable to my clients. I was believing that there was a lot of demand out there for the work I was doing, that people wanted to work with me, they were able to pay me and.
[00:09:50] Melissa Kellogg Lueck: I believe there was plenty of them out there. Right. Plenty of people to work with. And then I hit some bumps in the road and [00:10:00] my, my belief started to suffer, right? I, you know, was having I having some trouble signing on new clients and. Really bringing in the the revenue that I wanted and needed.
[00:10:18] Melissa Kellogg Lueck: And truthfully, I also had spent more money, you know, I got kind of into a spending spree and I was spending more money than I should have been. And so it created a hardship in my my business finances. And so when that happened. It also affected my mindset and what I was thinking about myself. I started thinking, you know, it kind of became a cascade and, and you may have experienced this where I started to think, well, I'm bad at business.
[00:10:53] Melissa Kellogg Lueck: I'm bad at managing my money. I'm bad at, and, you know, then the, just the list keeps [00:11:00] going on, right. And I, did not have awareness at the time to where I could. Really address where I was addressing those thoughts and cleaning up that thinking, because our minds are always going to be giving us this pros, you know, prosecutorial type thoughts, right?
[00:11:23] Melissa Kellogg Lueck: Like that we're bad at marketing and, and we're an imposter and you know, all of these things, right? And so we. I have to have awareness of that and then be able to address those thoughts. And so I got, I was in a place at that time where I wasn't addressing those thoughts, and so they began to snowball.
[00:11:43] Melissa Kellogg Lueck: And as that they began to snowball my belief in my value, my belief in the demand for what I was, my services and my belief, that there were enough clients, enough business out there that wanted what I have to offer, all started to [00:12:00] decline. And when that declines. Then what happens is your energy declines, right?
[00:12:06] Melissa Kellogg Lueck: You start, you know, all of a sudden are not feeling like you're up for going out to networking events or, you know, showing up online. Like you had been. You let your marketing plan slide. And when that happens, then when you know your actions. Suffer. And when your actions suffer, when you're not marketing and when you're not showing up where you wanna be showing up, and when you do, you kind of have all these stinky thoughts and beliefs, then what happens is the actions, even if you're taking a whole bunch of action, is not gonna be as effective in creating opportunities, bringing in sales, bringing in clients, and bringing in revenue.
[00:12:50] Melissa Kellogg Lueck: Right? So. If you're finding yourself in this place, I always recommend you go all the way back to what you're thinking and what you're [00:13:00] believing. So beliefs are basically just thoughts that you think over and over. So I have this exercise that I ask my clients to do time to time, from time to time, and what ask them to think about.
[00:13:15] Melissa Kellogg Lueck: You know, in regards to a specific subject, so say your sales or your revenue for the quarter, or your business or marketing or whatever the subject is, what are your five most prevalent beliefs about that subject? So we talk a lot about marketing around here, right? So let's just examine, here's a little exercise for you.
[00:13:39] Melissa Kellogg Lueck: What are your top five beliefs about your marketing? Right. And some of them might be something like, I'm not good at marketing. I don't like marketing, I don't like social media. I'm not good at writing emails. Marketing doesn't work for me. Social media [00:14:00] doesn't work for me. Like any combination of of that, right?
[00:14:05] Melissa Kellogg Lueck: So and so think about what are your five most prevalent beliefs, and then.
[00:14:12] Melissa Kellogg Lueck: What I wanna offer is that those are the five beliefs that create the energy that's currently going into your marketing, right? So if you have a lot of negative beliefs around yourself, about yourself and your marketing and how you come across to people, or whatever it might be. That becomes your unintentional marketing message, right?
[00:14:43] Melissa Kellogg Lueck: And so even if it's not the, the words that you're saying, it is the energy or the vibe or the feeling that you are portraying and projecting to your audience, to those that are [00:15:00] that are taking in your marketing or receiving your marketing messages, right? So there are three main category or three main categories of beliefs that I teach that have, for me been the greatest needle movers in terms of shifting my energy and shifting my belief.
[00:15:30] Melissa Kellogg Lueck: And the first one is around demand is believing. That the work I do and how I do it and who I do it for, believing that is in in high demand. And you might say, well, I don't have any evidence of that. Well, I would ask you to go find some, right? Like find the evidence for how you and the work you are [00:16:00] doing is in demand.
[00:16:01] Melissa Kellogg Lueck: So for example. There was a time in my business when I didn't believe that there was demand for my work. Right? There wasn't demand for the marketing and business coaching that I do, so I had to, so, and you may have heard me tell the story before, but the shift for me came when I heard or I was listening to an audio book, I think.
[00:16:28] Melissa Kellogg Lueck: The 10 X is easier than two x book. I was listening to the audio book and Dan Sullivan is on there and his co-author, Dr. Ben Hardy was saying how that he's been business coaching for 50 years, that Dan Sullivan has been business coaching for 50 years. And that hit me just in that moment, just that one sentence created the shift for me because I was like, oh.
[00:16:57] Melissa Kellogg Lueck: Well, business coaching has been in demand [00:17:00] for the last 50 years. It's gotta be in demand now. Like it can't have just, you know, disappeared off the, it's not like the typewriter, right? Like it's, people are still billing businesses and they still need help. So that became the, became the catalyst. And since then I've been able to build a lot other, a lot more beliefs, deeper, bigger, higher belief around the demand for business coaching, the demand for marketing coaching, and the demand for me as a coach, right?
[00:17:34] Melissa Kellogg Lueck: And so when you go and look for that evidence, you can find it just in the same way that your mind will often look for the evidence of the opposite belief. Right, and here's the paradox is that both may be true, right? It may be true that there is demand for business coaching, and that may be true that there isn't [00:18:00] demand for business coaching.
[00:18:01] Melissa Kellogg Lueck: Both may be true, right? But it's not in the extremes. Like it's not all or nothing. Like maybe there's less demand now than there was, and maybe at other times there's more demand, but. The fact remains that there is demand, right? So that's really the key, is believing that there is demand. And then you have the, so if that's a fact that there's demand for the work that you do in the world then you, the power is yours to develop your mindset, your skills, and your tools to go out and scoop up that demand, right?
[00:18:46] Melissa Kellogg Lueck: Number two, belief is a belief in value and your value in the value that you offer, and that that is important and transformational to [00:19:00] the people that you are best suited to serve. And so when you believe that you have value to offer and when you believe that it's important to the people that you serve, then.
[00:19:12] Melissa Kellogg Lueck: You are much more likely to wanna go out. That creates that energy of wanting to go out and help people. Right? And so I have an exercise that I do with many of my clients around establishing their value and really helping them to. To integrate that, to embody it. Because when you believe and you know, to your core that the work you are doing is changing lives and impacting people, there's nothing that's gonna keep you from going out and telling everybody about it, which is marketing, right?
[00:19:46] Melissa Kellogg Lueck: So that's belief number two. Belief number three is that all the clients that you have the capacity to offer or to serve are already around you. And so most of [00:20:00] the clients that I work with are you know, are, are low volume, high ticket advisors, coaches, consultants, helpers, healers, right? And so most of them don't need a high volume, you know, high number of people around them in order to have a very successful business.
[00:20:22] Melissa Kellogg Lueck: And that's the beauty of these. Businesses that we're building, right? And so you can build a very successful coaching, consulting advisory helper assistant business with a small network. So the, and the exercise that I take people to through, and I've done this myself, is tabulate all, you know, tabulate your network.
[00:20:48] Melissa Kellogg Lueck: Look at your network, all the people around you, right? How many is that? If you look at all the contacts in your phone, all the friends you have on Facebook, all the connections you have on [00:21:00] LinkedIn, all the people on your email list all the people that you have following you on Instagram or whatever the other platforms are, how many people are you connected to right now?
[00:21:13] Melissa Kellogg Lueck: So I would bet if you add that all up, it's probably a thousand, 2000, maybe even 5,000 people, right? Now, those are all people that you're connected directly to that are one degree of separation, right? They're directly connected to you now, so you say, okay, that's a thousand people on the low end. All right?
[00:21:35] Melissa Kellogg Lueck: A thousand people. Well, each one of those people, how many people do they know? Even if they only knew 10 people, you are two degrees of separation from 10,000 people and. You only need what, a dozen, two dozen, 50 clients in a year to have a really successful business and meet your goals. There's more [00:22:00] than enough people already around you, so you don't need to be out like hoarding new contacts, right?
[00:22:09] Melissa Kellogg Lueck: And so with these three beliefs on board, it makes it super simple to be marketing. To be selling and to be offering a high level client experience. So how do we do this? So number one is practicing new beliefs that serve you and your growth and the growth of your business around your demand, your value, and that there's plenty of clients, right?
[00:22:44] Melissa Kellogg Lueck: So you are practicing those thoughts over and over. That's how they become beliefs and practice thoughts that you can actually believe. Not BS thoughts that your brain's like, well that's totally unrealistic, right? So you practice [00:23:00] those over and over and you decide on purpose what you wanna believe, and then you set your mind to going out and looking for the evidence.
[00:23:10] Melissa Kellogg Lueck: Right. Find the evidence on it. And this is a daily practice, my friends. This isn't just, oh, I did it once last year and I'm good. No, this is daily brain training. Just like you train your body in the gym, just like you brush your teeth every day, twice a day, hopefully. Right? You have to practice and maintain your beliefs.
[00:23:36] Melissa Kellogg Lueck: Consistently. That's that consistent belief. And when you do that, what you are doing is creating connection with yourself and your why. Your purpose, right? Why you're doing what you're doing. And your beliefs fuel your energy. And so when you are practicing those beliefs, you'll feel [00:24:00] somatically in your body, the charge that those beliefs create.
[00:24:06] Melissa Kellogg Lueck: And that's your energy or your feelings, right? Your emotions around the the thoughts. And so when you practice that, then it changes your energy. And so from that place then. You go out and you execute. You practice consistent actions around bringing people in. So that's your marketing actions, right? So I always encourage and help my clients to create a consistent, simple marketing plan, a one one page marketing plan that they can, they can keep up with, keep consistent with without a lot of, physical, mental gymnastics and effort, right? So I like to help you create [00:25:00] marketing, a marketing plan that is going to get you connected with your best fit client regularly without a lot of friction in between, right? So whether that's going out and networking, where you're meeting potential best fit clients face to face.
[00:25:17] Melissa Kellogg Lueck: Or, you know, emailing them simply not having some massive email funnel or something like that with technology you don't understand. But creating a direct connection and connecting with people easily in ways that feel simple and just second nature to you. And so that's what I, I love helping my clients.
[00:25:45] Melissa Kellogg Lueck: You know, create those beliefs and then create that simple, sustainable one page marketing plan that magnetizes your dream clients to you. Because when you are in energy of belief and connection and service and [00:26:00] value, you become magnetic to your clients and to the the people that you wanna work with.
[00:26:07] Melissa Kellogg Lueck: And then when you're committed to that consistent action, you will create consistent results, consistent opportunities coming in the door. And then from that place, you need to have a consultation and follow up process that will turn, that you can be consistent with. And that provides a great experience for those people coming in.
[00:26:35] Melissa Kellogg Lueck: That turns those connections into paying clients easily, right? Something that you can feel confident in and be consistent with. And so how is that done? How is that? How is that set up? That is set up with systems and rhythms and automations, and understanding [00:27:00] your client journey? So that you can stay consistent without burning out, right?
[00:27:07] Melissa Kellogg Lueck: Because when we're using all of our cognitive and physical energy to just keep up, then we're not giving ourselves the time and the space and the cognitive space to really be thinking about our best fit client, how we can help them, how we can solve their problems. We wanna be thinking. As much about them and what they need and how we can help them as we can, and so how do we set up these systems and these rhythms, these consistent routines that really help create a peaceful, trusting, consistent business.
[00:27:50] Melissa Kellogg Lueck: We do it through evaluation, right? We create the consistent beliefs. And the consistent energy and then [00:28:00] implement through consistent action. Right? And then we're evaluating all along the way, evaluating what's working and what's not working and what we need to change and do differently. And when we, we pivot and make those changes, make those optimizations and those iterations and learn.
[00:28:27] Melissa Kellogg Lueck: From everything that we're doing. That goes right back to then creating that consistent action. We shift our beliefs, we improve the energy, right? And then we get back into action based on what we learned and we go again. And when we do that in a very measured. And from a calm and strategic and thoughtful place, that's how [00:29:00] we get to that point where we know and we have confidence in our ability to create the revenue, the business, the growth that we want to create, right?
[00:29:12] Melissa Kellogg Lueck: So this is the perfect blend of mindset. And skills and strategy, right? Putting it all together in this way really brings that confidence that you can trust yourself and trust your business, that you always know how to create the clients that you wanna create and build the business that you wanna build.
[00:29:43] Melissa Kellogg Lueck: And so I'm inviting you if you're in that mid five figure place. To really build this type of business. I'm really calling you to a higher level of maturity in your business, [00:30:00] and I would love to sit down with you and help you map out what this could look like for you and your business. Because my dream, my hope, my wish for every woman entrepreneur on this planet.
[00:30:17] Melissa Kellogg Lueck: Is to help you create this kind of peaceful business where you can trust yourself and focus all of your time on energy, on your impact, on spreading your message, on doing the work that really lights you up and seeing the results from that. The results financially and creating that financial freedom, but also the results and the impact and the change that you're making in the world.
[00:30:50] Melissa Kellogg Lueck: And so if that's something that you would like to explore with me and we can sit down together and I can build that roadmap for you, I do that [00:31:00] in one 60 minute session. We can do it one-on-one privately on Zoom together. And the way you do it is gonna be completely unique to you. And so I would love to explore that with you and what that could look like and walk you through an assessment process where I can really get a great understanding of what's currently working for you and your business and what we can do to help you get to where you wanna go.
[00:31:29] Melissa Kellogg Lueck: So if that's something you're interested in, please reach out to me. All of my contact information is in the show notes. I will have a link in the show notes to schedule a call with me, and I would love to work with you, love to help you develop that roadmap. It's a gift from me to you because like I said, my dream is that you can have the peace, the trust, and also the business that you dream of, right?
[00:31:59] Melissa Kellogg Lueck: Because I know it's [00:32:00] completely possible for you. I know a hundred percent it's possible for any woman that desires it, that wants it and is willing to do the work, and we can do it together. I can show you. All right. Okay, my friends, that's what I have for you today and I thank you for being here. I hope this was helpful for you and I would love to hear your thoughts, questions, and.
[00:32:28] Melissa Kellogg Lueck: Engage in that conversation with you and help you to develop the business that just lights up your life. All right, I hope you have a beautiful week and I'll talk to you very soon. Bye.
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